Don't Have a Merry Christmas

I once thought it strange that the British say, "Happy Christmas," when I grew up in America saying, "Merry Christmas!" But after some reflection, I think the Brits have it right.

2 Nephi 28:7
"Yea, and there shall be many which shall say: Eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow we die; and it shall be well with us."

The merry making we do at Christmas time has little to do with the true meaning of Christmas. Parties, food, music, drink and all the trimmings hide the real purpose of Christmas and provide no lasting happiness.


I do not mean to say that having a party and making merry is necessarily bad. Simply that it is not the best way we can celebrate the Christ child and make others happy and be happy. Indeed some of my most happy memories of Christmas are of cold wintery mornings driving the tractor to plow the neighbor's long driveway or doing some other act of kindness for a neighbor or friend.

Perhaps my warmest memory of such a time was a particularly cold and wintry Christmas morning when my brother and I got up very early on Christmas morning and snuck out of the house to milk the cow, feed the animals and bring in buckets of coal to keep the house warm. These chores were normally done by our dad who allowed us to play with our gifts while he did all of our chores on Christmas morning. I still remember his smile and the look of surprise and love on his face when we told him he did not need to go out that morning.

You can learn a little about the history of Merry Christmas vs Happy Christmas here:

Perhaps we can all learn something about being happy this Christmas rather than just making merry. Let us try to light the world with His happiness.

I know that true joy, true happiness comes in and through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Matthew 25:40
And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

Let us remember him by remembering our neighbor this year. In other words, have a Very Happy Christmas!